Four years ago, Petrucciani sealed a beautiful yet painful relationship between two people who could’ve moved mountains if only they wanted to. But they didn’t. With a gun barrel between his teeth he only spoke in vowels. That’s all I remember. Drowned in his own stupidity he continues to ruin his life with a fake smile on his face. Desperately trying to be happy. Just being a copy of a copy. Of a copy. Never really alive, never really dead [...] I guess he never got it. Good bye, Bob!
(Michel Petrucciani’s last concert was in Bucharest, december 1998, just one week before he passed away)
I’ve grown up so much in 2009 because I began to understand what really makes me happy. And found optimism in that. I am actually pretty enthusiastic about 2010 because I am sure it will bury the “less is more” placebo idea. Here’s what I’m gonna do about it, plus a rough timing:
Find and move into a proper “apartment for two” – January
At first glance we get really enthusiastic about all the fun and spare time we’re going to have. But on a second thought we take a closer look and meet: apocalyptic traffic conditions, freak series of people avalanches in stores, freezing butts whilst trying to smoke, money never enough for all the presents you need.. etc
Here are a few tips for staying sane while “hell” happens for the rest of us:
10. Make a 1 day action plan and stick to it
This includes shopping for presents, food, decorations, tree and all. The hype begins and ends for you in less than 24 hours. Then all you have to do is enjoy!
9. Breathe
Extra TLC does wonders for your mind and body (especially while waiting in queues).
8. Delegate
Start the process by matching up your tasks with family or friends who may be able to handle them. A simple table can help you along in making these decisions.
7. Be happy
This is not meant to be a stressful time of year, remember what it’s all about the family getting together,
having fun and enjoying your time together. Keep close some chocolate also :)
6. Take a break
Nap, sit, read, meditate, anything but make sure you take some quality time for yourself.
5. Enjoy mess
At least a little bit. Everything doesn’t have to be perfect and you already know that.
4. Set a spending limit
Because it’s so easy to get carried away. After all, Christmas is about giving, but you shouldn’t give to the point where you are going to need to have others help you to pay off the debts that you incur.
3. Avoid last minute deals
Trust me. It may sound a little crazy, but it makes a lot of sense. When you enter the stores you will be hit with an array of offers and tempting treats. The problem here is that it is very easy to overspend on your planned budget, which will be especially bad if Christmas has already squeezed your wallet dry.
2. Relax
Researchers say that people find the holiday season very stressful, reporting that they are most worried about arguing with a family member, accidentally insulting a family member, or forgetting to buy a present for someone. Disasters won’t happen if you relax. I promise.
1. Be thankful
If you have food in the refrigerator, clothes on your back and a place to sleep.. you are richer than 75% of this world. Merry Christmas!
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